Playing sports at the professional level is very impressive. For most people it’s hard to get to that top tier of athleticism, especially if you’re a woman. Before you can call yourself a professional hockey player, you have to climb the ladder of playing at the youth, high school, and collegiate level first.
My sister, Zoe Solomons, is a varsity forward on the Lady Spartan’s hockey team at St. Mary’s High School in Lynn, MA. Playing in her third season, she has grown accustomed to the pressure of being a girl playing a “male-dominated” sport.
I spoke to her along with one of her teammates, Marina DiBiasio, to get a better perspective on being a high school athlete and the surrounding stereotypes of female hockey players.

Do you Find it Necessary to Work Harder To Overshadow the Boys And To Prove Your Ability As A Girl?
Solomons: “Personally, when playing, I try to perform better than the boys so I can show that girls can actually play a sport like hockey. A lot of the boys think the girls suck, so when they come to the games, I want them to be shocked at how well we can play.”
When Someone Says Women Aren’t As Strong As Men, What Is It About These Types Of Comments That Registers With You?
Dibiasio: “I’m a very competitive person. When someone says you do ‘_______ like a girl,’ it becomes a motivating factor to show that I can do something as well, if not better than them.”

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What Does a Normal Game Day Consist Of? Do Students Gravitate Towards The Boys Team Over The Girls?
Solomons: “Most students definitely gravitate towards the boys team. More people like watching [them] because they think the girls are boring to watch since we can’t hit each other. They have a huge fan section, while we’re over here playing without one.”
With That Said, How Do You Feel About The Rules Against Being Able To Hit?
Solomons: I personally don’t mind it. I think if we could hit each other, it would definitely cause more injuries. It makes it easier to play without worrying about who’s coming up behind you, or when you have to stand up for a teammate who’s been cheapshotted.”
DiBiasio: “I feel like the physicality should be higher. I mean, we still lean on the boards a little bit, but we don’t get away with the physical style of play that the boys do. If a girl plays in a boy’s league, with players stronger than her, it’s definitely a safety concern. But if you have all girls in the same league, then there’s a level playing field. So why not us?”

Zoe focusing on the puck 
Blindsided by a defenseman 
Not a comfy spot
From an inside perspective, it’s very interesting to understand that as players mature, the awareness of gender inequality becomes more apparent. Just like any other team, these girls work extremely hard to consistently put a product on the ice that’s more valuable than the boys. The girls finished the season with a 16-2-2 record. But for some reason, it just isn’t good enough…
It’s easy to critique a sport that you don’t play or don’t really care to watch, especially if it’s women’s. I personally don’t like basketball, but I’d let my kids play. However, when your daughter asks if she can play a masculine sport like ice hockey, do you support her? Or do you say “girls don’t play hockey, you can do figure skating instead?” Think about that.








